Be careful what you wish for, you just might get it. For
years Tim and I talked about moving somewhere out of the way, I imagined a
little farmhouse away from everything where the kids and the dogs could run and
play and we weren’t bothered by neighbors who were too loud, sold drugs,
partied, hated our dogs, etc. (We’ve had a string of bad neighbors, and only
one or two really good ones) For some reason we had settled on Montana, and we
had even tried to get a job in Montana before, when we were still in the
culinary field. Fast forward several years, a career change and one excruciatingly
long drive and here we are, Montana.
When I look out my windows, all I see is blue sky and
rolling hills, sunlight glinting off the frosted grass. Windmills dot the horizon.
The thermometer outside said 15 degrees this morning and it is only November.
The air is so dry I am constantly putting on lotion and always feel thirsty. It
is a far cry from the dense forests and mild dampness I grew up in.
The house is exactly like visiting your grandparent’s
farmhouse, complete with 70’s décor and shag carpet. When they said it was
fully furnished they weren’t kidding, the house is full of books, knick knacks,
linens, and it is overwhelming. I have to pack up someone else’s belongings
just to move mine in. Still, the kitchen is huge, with a beautiful old linoleum
floor. Our landlord said we can use what we want and he’ll store the rest, we
can paint if we want, he is just happy to have the company, I think. He is our
only neighbor, an elderly farmer whose family worked this land for several generations.
The road is named after his family. We like him and so does our dog Toby.
Wherever we have lived, Toby has found an old man to befriend. Good thing Toby
likes our neighbor; he is the only one for five miles.
There is so much to do. The amount of cleaning and packing
and unpacking feels overwhelming. As I unloaded the car that first day I had a
panicked litany running through my head, “what did we do, what did we do, oh
gods all our friends and family are so far away, what did we do????” A few
nights of sleep have helped erased the litany but doubt still remains. We are
alone in another state, another world, really. Did we do the right thing?
Suddenly there’s no back up, no safety net for those days when I just can’t
take one more tantrum. Still, Montana is beautiful. The moon last night was
almost otherworldly as it sailed, full and shining, over the plains, turning
everything silver and lovely. If I look west I can see the Rockies, snow
covered and brushing the sky. This is not just a move for a new job, it is a
trial. A test to see if we can walk the walk, after years of nothing but talk. It
is a trial we are undertaking with open eyes and open arms but only time will
tell if getting what we wanted is a good thing.
a view of the full moon from our front door.
I'd say you've been training for this for a while. You seemed like a savvy city dweller when I met you, but it turns out you (like the rest of the clan) can make a home anywhere. It's been exciting to watch how your life has shifted and changed in the last 12 years. Everything you do is so cool (maybe its a big sister thing). True, its difficult to be more a than a few hours from family and friends, but you will find your Montana family before long. (Let's face it, people like cute babies, sweet dogs, good company and excellent food) For the harder days, we're always just a phone call away (and I have had those kinds of days!) The bottom line is you chose Montana because it is beautiful and you will love it, however long you're there. <3
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